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Hi all

We are very to say that Annie is no longer with us. She has left for greener pastures or so she says in Rochester

We wish her well

The advice team wilol miss her but life goes on so keep those letters coming

The advice team


Dear Annie 

i recently met a man online and became pregnant with this mans child i had an eptopic preg and lost the baby i also have given this man money have helped take care of his daughter and bought her things he is now currently living back at his old apartment in another state and still tells me he loves me and will be home with me soon but if he says he is going to call he doesnt i call him and he doesnt talk or gets mad it seems and then when he does call he calls collect i have lost everything but i cant seems to get this guy outta my head please help give me some real hard advice please thank you

Mary ( name changed)

Dear Mary

Are you kidding me. This guy let you help pay for his daughter, and leaves you after you lost your baby, and makesyou pay for the long distance call and then has the gall to get mad when you call.

Do you really need advice, just read your letter to yourself. Get him out of your mind !!! , and get on with your life.

 

 


My girlfriend broke up with my after 3 years. She isn't sure if I'm the one.

We have been separated for 2months now and we still feel the same way about each

other. Should I give her more time or should I move on? Please help

 

Dear separated

If she really is not sure by now its time to move on

The advice team

 

 


Dear Annie:

 

I started dating someone I had known from a former job I had. The

first week we saw each other three times and I thought this was working out

so well. The last four weeks we have been unable to get together. We have had

dates planned, but something always came up on her part. She is somebody who

never says no to family and friends. I respect how helpful she is to other

people. Her job has been so busy lately because they are short staffed. We

agreed we wouldn't see each other for a little while until her job calms

down. I'm not sure I did the right thing. I asked her point blank if she was

still interested and she said she is still very much interested, but the

times constraints on her job have her time hampered. I have very strong

feelings towards her, but I'm afraid of messing up the whole relationship by

telling her how I truly feel. I don't know yet if she feels the same way.

Years ago when I wasn't interested a friend of hers told me that she had a

crush on me at the time, but I was to shy back then to ask her out. She finds

time for her family and friends, but not for me. Is it because there is no

work involved because those relationships are already established? The thing

with her job is she is very career minded. Do you have any advice for me on

this matter? Sorry for such a long E-Mail. Thank you in advance for your time.

 

B

 

Dear B

She probobbly does like you,but you are going to have to give her some time do not rush it, or get on with your life.


hey, okay i really like this guy me and him never really talk his friends say

he thinks him hot but he doesn't know me. I talked to him one night and we

were kinda flirting but in a little way like he would look at me and smile

things like that. the thing is he seems really shy so when i try to talk to

him/ get to know him better he always walks away i dunno what it is. i don't

know wheather to think if he doesn't like me or if he is just shy. This guy

is really hard to figure out!!! I really like him and i feel so RIGHT with

him i never felt this way with any other guys before he doesn't make me

nervous or shy like the other guys that i have liked made me feel i really

want to go out with him but the thing is i know if i ask him out he will say

i don't know her that well. so 1st of all how can i make him like me the same

why i like him. and how can i get this guy to just start talking to me

insteads of walking away!?? And how Should i flirt with him?

 

Dear J

2 possible answers

The first one is he is not interested in you and is veing polite.

The second one is he is just shy,ans does not know how to talk to you and that is the reason he walks away. If this is the case you should tell him you like and want to go out with him.

Dear Advice peoples:

 

well i don't know where to start i meet a girl and we hit it off from the

start we think a like we believe in the same thing and we love each other

very much. but were both in the navy we already joined and leaving in 6

months. in leave in June she leaves i July.

we make love already it was her first time i thought that was sweet since it

was her first time. ( wanted to wait till she got merryed)

im worry of what may come when we leave hell it hurts to think what may

happen when June rolls in. I know that if our love is real well get threw

this. in may im think to ask her to merry me. But being away as a navy soiled

may change us both.

 

IM lost and worry advise please

 

thanks RI

 

Dear RI

If you two are really in love you will weather this storm..

All Navy spouses go threw the same thing every time a ship sails.

The only difference is this ti,e instead of one of you staying at home you are both going to sea.

You have not said how long you two have known each other and been going together..and how old you two are.

If you two love each other then there is nothing wrong with getting married, and yes it will hurt to be away from the person you love,

but what a home coming you two will have when you both get home..

Henry

 

 

 

dear annie,

i'm afraid that i wont be able to stop myself from "going too far" with my boyfriend. we've only been dating for 2 months, and have not actually had sex yet, but when we do "fool around", it can get pretty intense. i have strong opinions about not having sex until i am married, but i do not think i will be able to stop myself. what can i do?

i also have another question to ask you. when we fool around, he doesn't use a condom or any protection. should he be? even though we haven't actually had intercourse? is there still the risk of me getting pregnant? i am so unsure of all this...please help me...

thank you!~

 

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