How To Approach Groups
Of Girls You Don't Know, And Get Them To Think You're
By Tiffany Taylor
For this example Iím going to use women
at a bar. I will be going into lots of other techniques for non-bar
pickups too but for now, weíll stick with this.
(Note: In fact, I even recommend you
try my top places for picking up that are not bars Ė they are
WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and youíll see a massive leap in your
success rates with women.)
As you know, women donít usually go to
bars on their own. They go in groups.
Approaching GROUPS of women can be
extremely daunting and if you donít know what youíre doing, you can
fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can rip you
apart. Iíve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even drinks
poured over them.
But if you do the approach RIGHT, then
your success with a group of women can usually yield great
Whenever I suggest approaching groups
of women I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though Iím from another
planet. I realize that lots of guys probably donít have the initial
confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they donít know.
Donít worry, this can be easily solved. Iíll give you some simple
SIDE NOTE: If you have a major
confidence problem then donít worry, I have an advanced 155-page
E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into increasing
your confidence with women Ė and it works through the power of
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INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE
Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall
and when you catch a womanís eye, smile at her Ė more often than not,
sheíll smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop
employees. Even if they donít WANT to smile, they probably will. Good
practice. And you might even brighten a few womenís lives a
Step 2. Once youíve gained confidence
in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could move
onto other women in the mall. Iím not suggesting big weird freak
smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile
back at you.
Step 3. Hereís where it might seem a
little weird, but this really does help and practice and repetition
will make this lots easier. Just say ďhiĒ with a smile to women (and
men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will feel HORRIBLE
at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or two,
itíll seem easy.
After youíve smiled and said hi to 20
or 30 women, you should start to feel good (as long as you donít quit
on your first negative response Ė this will happen and will happen
when youíre approaching women to pick them up Ė you HAVE to learn to
step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with
One of my male friends did the ďsmile
at girls in the mallĒ technique and he actually ended up meeting the
girl of his dreams and is still with her 3 years later Ė howís that
There are loads of other techniques you
can do to build your confidence, most not quite as scary as the mall
one. I go into others within my bookÖ
Right, letís assume you now have the
confidence or at least the guts to approach women you donít know in a
bar (Again, I donít just go into bar pickups in my book, in fact, I
think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar Ė I think
itís everyday places where youíre not competing with other single
Firstly, letís suppose two girls are
sat together at a bar. One is the Ďuglyí one and one is the hot one
(the one you like the looks of and would like to get to know
You see the girls. Go up to them and
talk to them NOW! Donít waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them,
approach them. Some people call this the 3 second rule and I must say
it really does seem to work.
If you see her and like her, itís best
not to think too much about the approach, or youíre more likely to
work yourself into such a state that your approach will be
ineffective or youíll just pussy out altogether!
(Donít worry Iíll tell you WHAT to say
when you get there in a future lesson). So within 3 seconds, go TALK
ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from
the side or an angle from the front. !!!NEVER from behind Ė
If you go up to the group at the bar
and approach from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative
response, and they will be put on the defensive - for obvious
reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side...
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