How To Approach Groups
Of Girls You Don't Know, And Get Them To Think You're
Great!
By Tiffany Taylor
For this example I’m going to use women
at a bar. I will be going into lots of other techniques for non-bar
pickups too but for now, we’ll stick with this.
(Note: In fact, I even recommend you
try my top places for picking up that are not bars – they are
WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you’ll see a massive leap in your
success rates with women.)
As you know, women don’t usually go to
bars on their own. They go in groups.
Approaching GROUPS of women can be
extremely daunting and if you don’t know what you’re doing, you can
fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can rip you
apart. I’ve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even drinks
poured over them.
But if you do the approach RIGHT, then
your success with a group of women can usually yield great
results.
Whenever I suggest approaching groups
of women I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though I’m from another
planet. I realize that lots of guys probably don’t have the initial
confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they don’t know.
Don’t worry, this can be easily solved. I’ll give you some simple
tips here.
SIDE NOTE: If you have a major
confidence problem then don’t worry, I have an advanced 155-page
E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into increasing
your confidence with women – and it works through the power of
self-reprogramming so it doesn’t matter how shy you are, this thing
WILL work for you. It’s a bonus product in my site member’s area that
comes with my book at no extra charge.
INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE
MALL
Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall
and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile at her – more often than not,
she’ll smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop
employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile, they probably will. Good
practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives a
little.
Step 2. Once you’ve gained confidence
in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could move
onto other women in the mall. I’m not suggesting big weird freak
smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile
back at you.
Step 3. Here’s where it might seem a
little weird, but this really does help and practice and repetition
will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a smile to women (and
men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will feel HORRIBLE
at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or two,
it’ll seem easy.
After you’ve smiled and said hi to 20
or 30 women, you should start to feel good (as long as you don’t quit
on your first negative response – this will happen and will happen
when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you HAVE to learn to
step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with
women).
One of my male friends did the “smile
at girls in the mall” technique and he actually ended up meeting the
girl of his dreams and is still with her 3 years later – how’s that
for effective!
There are loads of other techniques you
can do to build your confidence, most not quite as scary as the mall
one. I go into others within my book…
Right, let’s assume you now have the
confidence or at least the guts to approach women you don’t know in a
bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar pickups in my book, in fact, I
think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar – I think
it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other single
guys).
Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are
sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’ one and one is the hot one
(the one you like the looks of and would like to get to know
more).
You see the girls. Go up to them and
talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them,
approach them. Some people call this the 3 second rule and I must say
it really does seem to work.
If you see her and like her, it’s best
not to think too much about the approach, or you’re more likely to
work yourself into such a state that your approach will be
ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say
when you get there in a future lesson). So within 3 seconds, go TALK
to her!
ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from
the side or an angle from the front. !!!NEVER from behind –
IMPORTANT!!!
If you go up to the group at the bar
and approach from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative
response, and they will be put on the defensive - for obvious
reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side...
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