Step 2: Making Yourself
Look Like A Million Dollars
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Nobody is perfect in
this world but that does not mean that we cannot try to look our
best. There is absolutely nothing wrong in giving nature a helping
hand. Work on your image, work on your profile, and work on your
Many people go by the
philosophy, "this is me, whether you like it or not it's your
problem. I am not going to change." Well, nobody is asking you to
change, but what are you trying to do? Scare people off?
Well, the fact is, such
statements are just a manifestation of your own insecurity. We all
have a certain degree of insecurity, some people more than others. It
is this insecurity that makes us sound gruff and uncaring when it
comes to improving our appearances.
Come on, what are you
afraid of? I'll give you a tip. Whatever you are afraid of, others
are afraid of the same thing. In this world, most people are neither
for us nor against us. They are thinking about themselves.
Presenting oneself is
an area that requires a lot of work, but surprisingly, this is the
one area which people tend to neglect the most. Most of us have a
laid back attitude when it comes to painting a picture about
ourselves. When it comes to presenting yourself we really have some
work to do.
If we knew you on a
more personal basis we would have loved to help you to chalk out a
profile of your self that would be as impressive as possible. But of
course, it is impossible to know all our readers on a one to one
But you do not have to
worry because we have done a lot of study in this regard and once you
follow our directions, you can indeed come up with that dream
One cannot take too
much effort in preparing a profile. It is something that should be
viewed in all seriousness. Please do not treat the subject lightly.
Imagine that you are preparing for a job; won't you spend a lot of
time getting your resume ready?
Well, most of us take
up jobs for how long, four or five years? And how about a
relationship, definitely we do not embark on a relationship with the
expectation that it would last for just a couple of years.
We have to understand
that a relationship is really worth much more than a job, because it
is probably the most important decision in your life. So now let us
discuss ways in which you can spruce up your profile.
You can of course get a
professional to do the job for you since it saves you the effort. You
may have to dish out a small amount of course, but it could be worth
it. There are many people who have qualms about including a picture
in the profile. Well, I don't want to press the issue. It certainly
does look better to have a picture in your profile, but due to
privacy issues you can refrain from including a picture.
The best thing you
could do is once you are comfortable chatting with a person and are
convinced that this person does not have any devious intentions, you
could send your picture over as an attachment or a file. But this,
too, is best done a mutual exchange basis. It would be unfair if you
know what the other person looks like but the other person is kept in
the dark and vice versa.