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Let's face it, of
course sex is important, but sex is by far not the most important
reason for dating.
Maybe during the age of
thoughtless youth, when new hormones are being pumped in and out, sex
is on every one's mind. But as one matures (mind you that does not
mean growing old and gray) sex takes the back seat and mutual
support, likes and dislikes, cooperation, caring and sharing come to
the forefront. We start thinking about building up a world of our own
and we need someone to share it with, and not just someone to sleep
Sex is a fundamental
need of every human being. We all have it in us to give and receive
physical pleasure. But when you sit and think about it for a minute,
you can see that this urge is actually the result of another
There is a more primary
urge in every human being to breed and produce offspring, and it is
this urge that gives rise to such a powerful sexual desire. But
whatever be the urge, the most dignified means to satisfy it is
Nobody, not one of us,
is complete without a partner; and it is to satisfy this need that
people date. Because of this, the rest of this manual will be
dedicated not to finding the right sex partner, but to finding the
right life partner.
Online Dating Is Here
Let's accept the fact
that dating couldn't really get better. Online dating is THE real
thing. Let's compare it to the old system of evening balls or social
gatherings. Imagine you are this big gathering where there are a lot
of men and women looking out for suitable partners.
Suppose you bump into
one or two people with whom you seem to strike an immediate rapport.
You are then able to take this person out onto a balcony with just
the moon to keep an eye on you.
You get to talk to this
person for hours and hours; just talk and nothing else. You get to
discuss likes and dislikes and finally when it is time to part you
leave with a promise to meet on a following day at an equally
enjoyable spot. These talks go on for days and weeks and finally you
decide that this indeed is the THE person with whom you want to spend
the rest of your life with.
Then of course you
start meeting in more open places, you hold hands and even kiss. You
begin to go out for lunch and dinner and spend even more intimate
time together. When the moment is right and your decision is made, it
then becomes time for you to say, "I do."
Sigh! It sounds like a
nice fairy tale, doesn't it? Well it needn't be. It could be your own
love story because the concept of online dating is just what has been
described above. If you click the right buttons everything could work
out fine for you and we have evidence to prove it. Just take a look
at the figures given below and you can behold for yourself what a
universal phenomenon online dating has already become.
As I mentioned earlier,
one of the best things about online dating is that it affords a lot
of privacy. You can chat for hours, video conference, or do whatever
it is you care to do without arousing the interest of others or
attracting the wrong kind of attention. All you need is a computer
and Internet access everything becomes as discreet as can be. But
along with that, may I add that we need a little bit of common sense
as well or else we might find ourselves within the clutches of many
lurid monsters lurking out there.
Another good thing
about online dating is that it saves a lot of money which otherwise
you would have had to splurge each time you took someone out on a
date. It is because of these reasons and many more personal reasons
that thousands of people find online dating to be a great